“A Mile In Their Shoes” Day Eleven and Twelve Highlights

Lake City, Florida to Madison, Florida. Over 50 miles logged into the books in two days. We said good-bye to our dear friend Ronnie. Got him on his way to Gainesville. Met some wonderful new friends…saw some beautiful scenery…what a great ride so far! More to come soon! Tallahassee here we come, should be there by Saturday! We are making a difference!

See ya on the road,

Jason

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Freedom From Bondage, (Alcoholism, Addiction, Chronic Homelessness) Lesson One

“The Saved Life Christian Fellowship exists as an alcohol/drug regeneration ministry providing an effective and comprehensive faith-based recovery program focusing on the spiritual, emotional, and physical regeneration of those suffering from alcoholism and drug addiction to help them become productive members of society. We provide the basic necessities of food, shelter, and clothing. Each program participant will be provided with a clean and healthy living environment, work therapy, leisure time activities, group and individual counseling, spiritual direction, and resources. We also assist each person to develop life skills and a personal relationship with God, as provided by our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.”

The previous paragraph is from the Saved Life Organizational Plan for a “Cities of Refuge” Alcohol/Drug regeneration Ministry. Our model was developed from the highly successful Dunklin Memorial Camp in Okeechobee, Florida who has been known to have a 90%+ success rate. Saved Life aims to reproduce this model with the same fruitful results! I am devoted to my vision and passion to see this dream become reality. Along this journey I am about to embark on Saturday, I want you to see what I see and, hopefully, feel what I feel! Over the next several days I am going to share with you the first few lesson plans that were developed for the Regeneration phase of our program. If you would like further information about our 14 month Christian Regeneration Program, please feel free to call me at (404) 769-1245. Please feel free to let me know what you think so far!

Lesson One

Introduction

Chemical dependency is a growing problem in the world today, yet it is misunderstood by most of us.  Chemical dependency is more than a lack of willpower to stop compulsive drinking or drugging. It involves the whole person: body, soul and spirit. It radically affects a person’s relationship with God, with himself and  with others in his life who are significant to him.. It deteriorates a person’s self-respect and reduces him to a  level far below that which he enjoyed before his addiction. Alcoholics Anonymous describes it as “cunning,  baffling and powerful.”

Why, then, in spite of all its obvious ill effects, do people continue to compulsively abuse themselves with drugs and alcohol? Most addicts simply do not know why. In these lessons we will explore some of the reasons why people compulsively drink and use drugs.
We will also examine why many addicts return to using chemicals after treatment. It is our hope that in learning about chemical dependency we can build a better foundation with which to remain sober and healthy.

When we speak of addiction, we include the entire chemical addiction field. We make no distinction between alcohol, or crack cocaine, or powdered cocaine, or marijuana, or heroin, or any other drug. It doesn’t matter if the addict drinks the chemical or smokes it or chews it or sniffs it. What matters is his bodily reaction after the chemical is ingested. In other words, the “high” it produces.

It also helps if we understand the concept of poly-addiction. Poly, means more than one. One of the most dangerous fallacies in drug treatment is the distinction between alcoholism and drug addiction. Some treatment facilities suggest that even though a person has a problem with cocaine, he can continue to drink alcohol or smoke marijuana. This is completely unreasonable. The brain reacts the same way to chemical infusion, regardless of the chemical or how it was brought into the body.

Every addict has a drug of choice, but when that drug is unobtainable, he doesn’t quit using, he finds another drug. The addict has to realize it is impossible for him to switch from one chemical to another as he attempts to be healed of his addiction. Any chemical is mood-altering, and that is what the addict searches for. He is addicted to the euphoria.

UNDERSTANDING CHEMICAL DEPENDENCY AS A DISEASE.

The American Medical Association formally recognized alcoholism as a disease in 1956. It meets the following criteria, which qualifies it as a disease:

1. It is a condition that is describable over the general population.
2. It runs a predictable course leading to premature death.
3. It has a predictable rate of response to a specific form of care.
4. Descriptive words associated with it lead to a specific form of care:
a. Primary
b. Progressive
c. Chronic
Understanding chemical dependency as a disease reveals why addicts continue to drink and drug long after it seems the `sensible thing to do.’ However, the fact that chemical dependency is a disease is no excuse for an addict to continue to use drugs or alcohol, nor does it release the addict from the responsibility to seek treatment and to continue in a program of recovery.

1. Chemical Dependency Is A Condition That Is Describable Over The General Population.
Although chemical addiction occurs in different people at different times in different locations, its characteristics, symptoms and aspects are the same. It has no respect for age, race or nationality. The addict can be tall or short, fat or thin, rich or poor. Regardless of the circumstances or the people involved, chemical dependency has five common characteristics:

1. Compulsive abuse
2. Denial and Projection
3. Alienation from God
4. Isolation from true self
5. Alienation from others who are significant in the addict’s life

As chemical addiction continues to develop, it generates other characteristics, including black-outs, personality changes, preoccupation with alcohol and drugs, intolerance, evasion, rigidity, ambivalence, unworthiness, manipulation, hostility, sabotage, etc. The list is endless. These characteristics develop regardless of the age group, the class of society, the religion, the intelligence level or the country in which the addict lives. They have remained the same throughout history. The book of Proverbs was written over 3,000
years ago. This is what it has to say about alcoholism:

“Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaining? Who has
wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes?

Those who linger long over wine, those who go to taste mixed wine. Do not look on the wine when it
is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly; at the last it bites like a serpent, and stings
like a viper.

Your eyes will see strange things, and your mind will utter perverse things. And you will be like one
who lies down in the middle of the sea, or like one who lies down on the top of a mast.

They struck me, but I did not become ill; They beat me, but I did not know it. When shall I awake? I
will seek another drink. (Proverbs 23:29-35)

2. The Disease Of Chemical Dependency Is Primary.

Chemical addiction is not a secondary problem, nor is it a symptom of underlying problems. Chemical dependency either causes a problem or aggravates a problem that is already there. Alcohol and drug addiction block treatment and healing for any other problems the addict has. Because of this, chemical dependency must be dealt with first. This makes it a primary problem.

For years, psychologists approached chemical dependency by saying, “Let’s find out what causes you to drink,” They began to look at problems in the lives of the addicts, but they couldn’t get their clients to quit drinking or drugging.

Likewise, spouses have tried to help their loved ones become sober by tending to all their problems, those conditions that seemed to `make’ their addict use chemicals. This also does not work.

For the addict to arrive at a point at which he can be healed, he must quit drinking and drugging, and recover a sober mind and judgment. Until that occurs, no healing will take place. For example, to receive healing from a childhood hurt, the addict must first become chemical-free before God can effectively work in him and he can respond to what God wants him to do.

Chemical addiction has also been treated as a moral problem. If the addict would exercise his willpower, he could quit. But when we take a look at the hundreds of millions of people throughout the world we can see it is more than a problem of willpower.

It is slowly being recognized that chemical addiction is an irreversible allergy. Once the use of chemicals progresses through the social stage to the addictive stage, all control is lost. It then becomes a primary problem, and must be treated as such.

3. The Disease Of Chemical Dependency Follows A Predictable, Progressive Course.

As we read in the book of Proverbs, the alcoholic of that day had the same problem and characteristics of the alcoholic today. We can predict with accuracy what will happen to the person who continues to use alcohol or drugs.

The effects of the disease of chemical dependency are as predictable as an ordinary case of the measles. If a child becomes infected with measles, the doctor can predict that for three days the child will have spots, fever, diarrhea and loss of appetite. In the same way, if a person is found to be chemically dependent, we can predict what will happen if he continues to use the chemicals. Predictably, he will run the course of social, dependent and addictive stages.

Chemical addiction is also progressive, always getting worse. It is impossible for an addict to drink or drug himself into better health or better relationships. As he continues to use chemicals, his condition will get progressively worse.

As a multi-phase disease, chemical addiction affects us spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. A major problem is that it affects us physically last. By the time the addict recognizes that his body is seriously damaged, he is already in the fatal stage of addiction. If it would affect him physically first, he may be inclined to seek treatment earlier, before it reaches the fatal stage.

Alcoholics often experience a physical plateau in their addiction. They reach a certain tolerance level and they may stay there for months or years. But eventually physical resistance breaks down and they continue to deteriorate. Through extended chemical use, they inevitably get worse. The effect upon the spiritual, mental and emotional characteristics do not seem to reach plateau, they deteriorate continuously.

4. Chemical Dependency Is Permanent Or Chronic.

Chronic means ongoing. This is where we begin to understand how serious the problem is. No one has the measles for a lifetime; they eventually clear up. This is not the case with those who are chemically addictive. They have an irreversible `allergy’ to drugs and alcohol. The body of a chemically addictive person processes the chemicals differently than the body of one who is not addictive. Chemicals deplete the addict’s brain of its normal level of endorphins (nature’s chemicals that give a sense of serenity and good feeling). This creates a craving within the addict for the feeling he no longer has, naturally.

The addict’s body changes in such a way that once the invisible line from dependent to addictive use is crossed, it does not change back to normal. Never again will the addict be able to use chemicals again. If he uses them, he will abuse them. Once a person is an addict, it is impossible for him to return to social use of chemicals again. This includes the use of all chemicals, because the addict is poly-addictive.

It is important to remember that an addict cannot be an addict for fifteen years, quit using for one year, then begin using at the social level. Any time he attempts to use chemicals, he will begin where he left off, regardless of the length of his sobriety.

The only certain method of maintaining an `arrest’ of chemical addiction, is to become, and remain, drug and alcohol free.


5. Chemical Dependency Is A Fatal Disease.

If left untreated, chemical dependency is 100% fatal. Statistics show that the average American male lives to  be 74 years old. The alcoholic, on the other hand, has an average life span of 51 years. There are no verified statistics for the life span of drug addicts, but it appears that the drug addict has a much shorter life span than the alcoholic.

Chemical dependency is not just a bad habit, it is a life and death situation!

There are various ways in which one can die from chemical dependency. Fatal physical ailments from compulsive abuse include heart conditions, cirrhosis of the liver, cancer, etc. Compulsive use of chemicals affects almost every body organ. It affects the heart, brain, liver, kidneys, pancreas, lungs, stomach, esophagus, etc. It also can generate malnutrition.

Chemical abuse also causes deaths from accidents, such as auto accidents, on-the-job accidents, drownings, etc. Approximately one-third of all addicts die from accidents.

In addition, there are deaths from the emotional ailments of addiction, such as depression, which leads to suicide. There is also the reckless quest for the extreme emotional high from certain drugs, which leads to death by overdose.

We can see by this that the physical, the accidental and the emotional effects of chemical addiction all work toward early death.

6. The Disease Of Chemical Addiction Is Treatable.

Even though chemical addiction is primary, predictable, progressive, chronic and fatal (which would make it seem to be the worst disease around), it has one more very important characteristic: it can be arrested.

Those who have stopped drinking and drugging and have persistently worked a program for recovery (such as this one) have been able to live full lives again. Even those whose organs are permanently damaged can live longer than they would have lived without treatment.

Recovery from chemical addiction requires a lifestyle change, including a structured, disciplined program to bring it about. An effective program for recovery must include all facets of the person, spirit, soul and body, for the addict to become completely free of his disease. In addition, it must include a restoration process, to restore the addict’s relationships with God, with himself and with others.

We at Saved Life have such a program! We need you, our faithful supporters and partners to help us make this a reality. Our approach to prevention and treatment substance abuse is to teach an entire new way ofliving – addressing family relationships, work ethics, and community service. We believe that the key toabstinence from substance abuse is based on the spiritual dimension of a personal relationship with ourLord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

The message we present here is that the lost, sick, weary, and burdened, who are all children of God, our fellow brothers and sisters, can stand strong with and in the Power and Love of God as they strive to overcome alcoholism, substance abuse, and other life-controlling problems and self-destructive behaviors. Also, that I (Jason J. Day) have done so!

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Saved Life Chronicles: Atlanta

“Blessed are you who are poor, for yours in the kingdom of God. Blessed are you who hunger now, for you shall be satisfied. Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh.”

Luke 6:20-21

“Elderly gentleman sleeping in the abandoned lot across from the Metro Atlanta Task Force for the Homeless shelter.”

For the last week we have been in the Atlanta Metro area putting together supplies and purchasing our chase vehicle for this awareness ride. This down time has also afforded me some much needed rest and relaxation. We will be leaving the Jacksonville Beach Pier exactly two weeks from yesterday. During this time, I have spent several days with the street people of the City of Atlanta. I have met some very good people while in Georgia, most of whom spent last night either in a mission or on the streets of Downtown Atlanta.  After a uneasy nights sleep, I awoke this morning still wondering what God wanted me to see here in Georgia. Trials and tribulations in the form of a busted fuel pump, several rollback wrecker trips, and several days waiting in a mechanics garage,  have left us stranded in unfamiliar territory here in Georgia, both physically and for me, spiritually. “What are you trying to show me Lord?” A phrase that I have repeated over and over the past few days in my mind.

I had several bags of blankets and clothing that were donated to Saved Life to use on our awareness ride by a very nice couple we met several days ago. I decided I would drive into Atlanta today and stop by the Metro Atlanta Task Force for the Homeless and see what my friend Jillian was up to. Maybe we could be of some help. Jillian is a shelter monitor at the MATFH. I met him last week during my first visit to the mission. I figured the blankets could be used more effectively right here in Atlanta rather than drive them back to Jacksonville with us tomorrow. So, off we went!

Immediately upon arrival I noticed more people than we seen on a previous visit to MATFH. The abandoned parking lot across the street was filled with homeless men, women, and children. Several area Churches had gathered in the parking lot to hand out toiletries, blankets, clothing, and a steamng hot plate of homemade spaghetti and meatballs. As we parked the car, I noticed the man in the photo above off to the side sleeping amidst the hussle and bussle of the parking lot. My heart immediately began to ache. This was possibly someones father, someones son…bottom line…he is SOMEBODY.

After about two hours of ministering to the people in the parking lot, we decided it was time for us to leave and let the mission staff prepare everyone for the nightly meal. As I got back in our vehicle, I couldn’t help but look back at the man still laying in the corner. There he still was resting peacefully, or so it seemed. The noise had not bothered him at all. I walked back across the street and snapped the above photo of this man, this mass of humanity before me, wondering, “How can this be happening in one of the richest nations in the world?’ “How can we allow this to happen with a clear conscience and still call ourselves Christians?”

Man lying on sidewalk two blocks from the MATFH mission.

Metro Atlanta Task Force for the Homeless, Atlanta, Georgia

Heading into Downtown Atlanta

Blessed and Highly Favored

My name is Jason J. Day. I am a soldier in the army of God. The Lord Jesus Christ is my commanding officer. The Holy Bible is my Code of Conduct. Faith, prayer,and the Word are my weapons of warfare. I have been taught by the Holy Spirit, trained by experience, tried by adversity. I have a desire to effect a change in our society for the homeless …and all those who are lost and suffering. I have made a decision to do just that, to give the lost an opportunity to hope again! I am determined to succeed! Get involved! We are here to offer light to the lost, encouragement for the weary, and hope for the hurting. We are Saved Life. Keep us in your prayers! See ya on the road!

“Come to me all who are weary and burdened and i will give you rest.”

Matthew 11:28

Jason J. Day Interview

Take a look at my first of many interviews for Saved Life: Coast to Coast! I was very nervous and did not think it was very good! I didn’t actually cover all of the material I had wanted too! There is a solution to all of this madness! We believe our “Cities of Refuge” model would help to alleviate the problems of alcoholism, addiction, and chronic homelessness. I am very committed to fulfilling my goals of making this a reality. Join us! Help us to make a difference! What do YOU think of the interview? Please let me know! See ya on the road!

  • Saved Life: Coast to Coast

    We are launching a nationwide homeless awareness ride titled “ Coast 2 Coast: A Mile In Their Shoes”. We are launching from the Jacksonville Beach Pier in Jacksonville, Florida on March 20, 2010 and finishing at the Santa Monica Pier, just outside of Los Angeles, California. A journey of approximately 2,800 miles. We plan on doing this in a 7 month timeframe. But once I reach California I may continue on a new journey wherever God leads me. I am not stopping until I am convinced I have made a difference in the way people view the poor and needy of society and become willing to do something about homelessness. Did I mention that I am doing this on a bicycle?
  • Our Purpose and Mission:

    1. Encourage people to ask themselves, “Am I doing enough?”
  • 2. I want to better understand the life of the homeless in America, and to see, firsthand, how their needs are being met, directly and indirectly.
  • 3. To encourage Christians to “Live Out Loud” in whatever way that God is asking them too! Encourage them to let faith overcome their fears!
  • 4. To learn personally what it means to depend on Christ and experience pure contentment and confidence in Him to guide me on this journey of awakening.
  • 5. My vision is to and implement our organizational plan for a "Cities of Refuge" Alcohol/Drug Regeneration Ministry to help alcoholics, addicts, and the chronically homeless attain freedom from their bondage and become productive citizens. But moreso, give them a place they can call HOME!
  • I want to challenge people to summon the courage to “live out loud” their faith in God by showing true Christian compassion and gentleness for the less fortunate of society.
  • This is the heart of living a “Saved Life”.

    Are you living it?
  • Who is Jason?

    My name is Jason J. Day. I am a soldier in the army of God. The Lord Jesus Christ is my commanding officer. The Holy Bible is my Code of Conduct. Faith, prayer,and the Word are my weapons of warfare. I have been taught by the Holy Spirit, trained by experience, tried by adversity. I have a desire to effect a change in our society for the homeless …and all those who are lost and suffering. I have made a decision to do just that, to give the lost an opportunity to hope again! I am determined to succeed! Get involved! We are here to offer light to the lost, encouragement for the weary, and hope for the hurting. We are Saved Life. Keep us in your prayers!
  • See Ya On The Road!